by The Center KSQ | Apr 30, 2021 | Uncategorized
I love Einstein. I love him because somehow his many theories of relativity and beyond seem to apply so perfectly to the trauma/change/healing/life-in-general-being-a-human world. “We cannot solve our problems with the same level of thinking that created...
by The Center KSQ | Apr 28, 2021 | Uncategorized
Ambiguous loss We don’t talk about it enough, or much at all. We wake, we breathe, we go about our days, we sleep. We repeat. In that hustling and shuffling about while being human, there are clear gains. And clear losses. Birth, death. Life lived, life ended....
by The Center KSQ | Apr 21, 2021 | Uncategorized
Oooo that super scary F-word… feelings! I think about this often; what is it about feelings that are so scary for people? Doing clinical work over the years with kids as compared to adult clients is funny (not funny). Adults come in, you ask how they are,...
by The Center KSQ | Apr 19, 2021 | Uncategorized
Self-regulation does not mean not feeling. As crazy as it sounds, I have had conversations over the years with widows, mothers who have buried their children, veterans who lost their buddies in theatre, so very many conversations, all the while explaining that it’s...
by The Center KSQ | Apr 15, 2021 | Uncategorized
“Not having a memory, doesn’t mean you don’t remember.” An active working memory is not a requirement for an active trauma response, despite popular misconception. Have you ever had a panic attack? The sense that something is about to...
